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Think. Use parental control

Think that your child can see, right at this moment, sites that are not as harmless as this one.

Tip of the day: YouTube`s Safety Center

Use YouTube`s Safety Center if you notice any hateful content or any other teen safety issues on YouTube`s channels/videos.

And remember: Children under 13 years are not permitted to access YouTube. Also, teach your kid to think about the potential consequences when posting videos of himself or a friend. Once a video is online, you`ll never know who might see it.

Tip of the day: Keeping control over the info posted online!

Social networking sites teached us new meanings for words like `friends`. These sites can increase your circle of friends, but they also increase your exposure to people with less-friendly intentions.

Talk with your teen to think about keeping some control over the info they post. They should consider restricting the access to their personal info to a select group of people, like, real friends from school, sports team, or family.

Child Predators on the Internet: What Every Parent Should Know

If you missed it at The Oprah Winfrey Show, read Danielle`s worst nightmare, the tragic story about how social networking sites destroyed her and her daughter`s life.
Click HERE to read it!

Read also her advices on what every parent should know:
1. It can happen to anyone.
2. Learn the technology.
3. Don’t let your children be naïve.

“Talk to your children,” Danielle says. “Tell them about what happened to me and my child. That’s powerful.”

The power of `Ignore` - 10 tips for chat safety

* Accompany your child in chat rooms until he or she learns your safety rules
* Teach your child to never give out personal information such as his or her name or address, school name or address, or anything else that is personally identifying.
* Teach them to check with an adult for any exceptions.
* Explain them to never respond online to any messages that use bad words or words that are scary, threatening, or just feel weird.
* Teach them if they get that kind of message, to print it out and tell you/an adult immediately.
* If you spotted threatening or just weird messages contact the online service or appropriate agency.
* Explain that people are not always who they say they are
* Teach your kid the `power of ignore` - If her/he is uncomfortable in a live chat room, to use the “ignore” button.
* Set a rule that your child never arranges an in person meeting without you present
* Limit your child to specific chat rooms or consider blocking out chat entirely

Tip of the day (5)

Educate your kids to:
• always use a nickname instead of real name;
• never give out personal information (name, address, age, telephone number, password, credit card number, and so on) in chat rooms and email
• always inform you if they receive any frightening or upsetting communication
• never exchange photographs over the Internet
• never agree to meet in real life with persons knowned in a chat room.

Crack the code of your kids online language

Even we talk about cell phones or online chat talks, teens speak their own language. Teen chat rooms have become a social haven for millions of connected teens worldwide.
Chat rooms are an interactive lifestyle and for many provide an outlet for expression, making new friends and in a lot of cases making romantic or sexual connections.

We`re sure that you`ve walk up behind your teen to peek over his shoulder to see what he is saying online. The only problem is that most kids use a “short hand” when they chat online and parents just don’t know what their kids are saying online.

To make things easier for you, we present you some interesting acronyms, to understand what letters like POS are meaning (Parent Over my Shoulder).

Other acronyms include:

420 – `Marijuana`
9 – `Parent is watching`
99 - Parent is no longer watching
ASL - `age/sex/location`
ASLP – `age, sex, location, picture`
CD9 - `Code 9 - it means parents are around`
D46 - `Do you want to have sex?`
E or X - `Ecstasy (the drug)`
KPC -`Keeping Parents Clueless`
LG6 - `Let’s have sex`
LHOS - `Lets Have Online Sex`
GNOC - `Get naked on camera`
P911 - `Parent Alert`
PAW – `parents are watching`
PIR – `People in room`
SOS – `someone over shoulder`
TDTM - `Talk dirty to me`
LMIRL - `Let’s meet in real life`

Check out more Chat slang here and Acronyms & Text Message Shorthand here

Good luck!

Tip of the day (4)

Allow access only to certain websites previously agreed together with your children. You can check with the children’s teachers for suggested Web sites and for recommendations for good resources online.

Tip of the day (3)

According to the children`s age, schedule computer / Internet use sessions and even set traffic limits.

This way you can stop them downloading non-licensed software or adult movies and control time spent on chat rooms.

Tip of the day (2)

Spend as much time as possible with your children on the computer / Internet.
Show them that you are interested about their online friends just like you know their real life friends, play together and let them show you what new things they have learned or the things they like. This way you will help them identify inappropriate communications.